{"id":3445,"date":"2024-04-02T09:00:00","date_gmt":"2024-04-02T07:00:00","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/blog.yooppe.com\/?p=3445"},"modified":"2024-03-28T17:45:08","modified_gmt":"2024-03-28T16:45:08","slug":"going-back-when-a-love-is-finished","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/blog.yooppe.com\/singleness\/going-back-when-a-love-is-finished\/","title":{"rendered":"FINISHED LOVE: IS IT POSSIBLE TO GET BACK WITH AN EX?"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<h2 id=\"finished-love-is-it-possible-to-get-back-together-with-your-ex-some-say-it-is-possible-but-only-under-certain-conditions\" class=\"wp-block-heading has-medium-font-size\">Finished love: is it possible to get back together with your ex? Some say it is possible, but only under certain conditions\u2026<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<h3 id=\"finished-love-what-do-the-experts-say\" class=\"wp-block-heading\" style=\"font-size:19px\"><strong>Finished love: What do the experts say?<\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p>&#8220;<strong>Recoupling<\/strong>&#8221; is a term used to explain, in a single word, the desire to get back together with an ex-partner.<br><br>The idea of reconciling might be appealing, so much so that 37% of couples decide to give it another chance after an initial breakup. However, this decision doesn&#8217;t always succeed, as only 12% of couples manage to seriously sustain their relationship.<br><br>Those contemplating reconciling with their ex often ask themselves the same questions:<br><br><em>&#8211; &#8220;Will they have the willingness to improve the aspects that weren&#8217;t working with me?&#8221;<br>&#8211; &#8220;Is it a good idea to dive back into a past love without spending some time alone?&#8221;<br>&#8211; &#8220;If it ended once, could it happen again in the same way?&#8221;<br>&#8211; &#8220;Wouldn&#8217;t it be more appropriate to build the future with someone else?&#8221;<\/em><br><br>These are some of the main uncertainties\u2026<br>But how does one resolve these doubts and make a decision?<br><br>Perhaps it&#8217;s worth asking questions about the end of the romantic relationship, trying to understand what led to the breaking point!<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 id=\"finished-love-5-questions-to-ask-yourself-if-you-want-to-get-back-with-your-ex\" class=\"wp-block-heading\" style=\"font-size:19px\"><strong>Finished love: 5 questions to ask yourself if you want to get back with your ex<\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\n<ol>\n<li><strong>&#8220;Why did you break up with your ex?&#8221;<\/strong><br>You don&#8217;t need to go through every single thing, otherwise you wouldn&#8217;t survive! Try to summarize the main reasons that led to ending the relationship, dividing them into two categories:<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n\n\n\n<ul>\n<li><strong>Internal Pressures: <\/strong>Infidelity, lack of interest, or compatibility issues.<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><strong>External Pressures:<\/strong> Limited time together to nurture the relationship, financial difficulties, or disapproval from a family member.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<ol start=\"2\">\n<li class=\"link_normal_text\"><strong>&#8220;How much distance have you taken from your ex?&#8221;<\/strong><br>Evaluate the level of distance you currently have with your ex: if you don&#8217;t talk or there&#8217;s nothing connecting you, moving forward might be a bit more complicated than expected&#8230;<br><br>However, if for some reason you&#8217;ve never really separated and you&#8217;ve remained <a href=\"https:\/\/www.verywellmind.com\/can-you-be-friends-with-your-ex-7565226\">friends<\/a>, maybe you haven&#8217;t had the chance to truly assess what happened between you with a clear mind.<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n\n\n\n<ol start=\"3\">\n<li><strong>&#8220;Do you miss him or his company?&#8221;<\/strong><br>It&#8217;s normal to want to be with someone, especially if it seems like all your friends are in fantastic relationships and you&#8217;re not; add to that the social pressure pushing us to <strong>be in a couple<\/strong>, it&#8217;s almost habitual now to imagine ourselves with someone, and it might be easier (perhaps) if it&#8217;s with someone we&#8217;ve been with before.<br><br>In this case, it&#8217;s important to understand what truly keeps you attached to your old story. Try to figure out if it&#8217;s just a nostalgia for being with someone and sharing plans, or if it&#8217;s truly missing your ex and their personality. <em>Which one is it&#8230;?<\/em><\/li>\n<\/ol>\n\n\n\n<ol start=\"4\">\n<li><strong>&#8220;How much time has passed? Have you changed?&#8221;<br><\/strong>How much time has passed since you said &#8220;it&#8217;s over&#8221;? For both of you to carefully reflect on the mistakes made in the relationship, it&#8217;s important that a significant amount of time has passed, which doesn&#8217;t equate to just a day or a single week&#8230;<br><br>When a relationship ends, often both parties give themselves time to be alone, and it&#8217;s during that period, with a clear mind, that the first signs of improvement start to appear: memories of past circumstances come back, leading to thoughts like:<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n\n\n\n<ul>\n<li><em>&#8220;I could have responded differently or done that thing instead of how it went&#8230; maybe I was too nervous because&#8230;&#8221;<\/em><\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><em>&#8220;Yes, if I had maintained the right balance between personal life and work, by now many arguments or discomforts wouldn&#8217;t have happened&#8230;&#8221;<\/em><br><br>So, try to understand if the time spent alone has helped you think about what points need improvement&#8230;<br><br>If (as they say) &#8220;time is ripe,&#8221; then it&#8217;s worth trying to reconnect and seek reconciliation (make sure, though, that the conditions are right to do so&#8230;)<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<ol start=\"5\">\n<li><strong>&#8220;What positive contribution does your ex make to your life?&#8221;<\/strong><br><br>These years won&#8217;t come back, and maybe these are the best ones you&#8217;re experiencing\u2026So, think carefully about with whom you&#8217;ll decide to spend them.<br><br>If your ex is a person with a negative influence, making you sad and leading the relationship to constant arguments, maybe it&#8217;s not worth continuing.<br><br>If, on the other hand, you believe they are a positive, respectful, and loving partner, then it&#8217;s easier to consider giving your relationship a second chance.<br><br>The choice is solely yours, but remember always to go where you can shine and be valued, both as a woman and as a partner.<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n\n\n\n<h3 id=\"finished-love-is-it-a-good-idea-to-get-back-with-your-ex-if\" class=\"wp-block-heading\" style=\"font-size:19px\"><strong>Finished love: Is it a good idea to get back with your ex if&#8230;<\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p>Returning to an ex can be a good idea if both of you are willing to commit to building a stronger relationship and addressing the mistakes that led to the breakup.<br><br>You can see this in small gestures&#8230;<br><br>Try to find out if you&#8217;re truly willing to commit and, above all, if he is too&#8230;<br><br>Try to reconnect gradually, step by step, to see if time has managed to calm the waters and help you grow.<br><br>On the other hand, getting back with an ex might NOT be a good idea if the breakup was caused by unsolvable problems or &#8220;toxic&#8221; behaviors.<br><br>If you&#8217;ve noticed or think that your ex-partner is unwilling to listen to your needs to promote the peacefulness of the relationship, then let it go. In these cases, it&#8217;s essential to take care of your mental and emotional well-being and give yourself a second chance rather than a relationship that wouldn&#8217;t lead you anywhere.<br><br>Love is also an opportunity for growth, to define what you want from what you don&#8217;t want, so don&#8217;t focus on the wrong people (or at least not for the rest of your life)!<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 id=\"finished-love-the-opportunity-to-reestablish-the-relationship-with-yourself\" class=\"wp-block-heading\" style=\"font-size:19px\"><strong>Finished love: The opportunity to reestablish the relationship with yourself<\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"link_second\">In English, it&#8217;s often said: &#8220;Better the devil you know.&#8221; Sometimes, we tend to prefer living in a negative situation &#8211; one we&#8217;re familiar with &#8211; rather than risking facing the uncertainty of change (which might be for the better).<br><br>This is your opportunity <a href=\"https:\/\/yooppe.com\/blog\/singleness\/4-truths-about-being-single\/\">to start afresh<\/a>.<br><br><strong>Put a stop to the past and focus on the present<\/strong>: reclaim your passions, your daily activities, your friendships, and discover a &#8220;new you.&#8221;<br><br>Remember that you&#8217;re strong, beautiful, intelligent, and you will surely find someone who is just right for you and your qualities.<br><br>In case you&#8217;re looking for a little help, we suggest Yooppe, the dating app where women can make new connections and express themselves freely!<br><br><a href=\"https:\/\/referral.yooppe.com\/Store\">Download<\/a> to believe. \ud83d\udc98<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"Finished love: is it possible to get back together with your ex? 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